What Is Nonnamaxxing? The Italian Grandmother Lifestyle Trend That Is Redefining How We Live
- Maheshwari Raj
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A Lifestyle reframing slow living, longevity, and emotional wellbeing through the rituals of the Italian grandmother.
By Maheshwari Vickyraj
What Is Nonnamaxxing? The Trend Everyone Is Talking About
Nonnamaxxing is the idea that you can live longer, feel better, and find more daily
satisfaction simply by adopting the habits of an Italian grandmother. No supplements. No
biohacking protocol. No cold plunge at 5am. Just walk to the market. Cook something from
scratch. Eat it with people you love. Sit outside and do very little with complete conviction.
The word is a portmanteau of nonna, the Italian word for grandmother, and the suffix
maxxing, meaning to maximise or optimise something. Where looksmaxxing is about
optimising physical appearance, nonnamaxxing is about optimising for a life that actually
feels like one.
As Vice reported, nonnamaxxing is built around the idea that adopting the daily habits of an
Italian nonna could add years to your life and make those years feel like something: walk
more, eat real food, stay connected to your community, and drink your coffee without also
answering emails.
SELF magazine covered the nonnamaxxing trend in April 2026, noting that the Italian
grandma lifestyle might be the secret to longevity. And Glamour UK put the question directly
on their feed: what if the Italian grandmother has been right all along?
The short answer, backed by decades of longevity research, is yes.
Why Nonnamaxxing Is More Than a Wellness Trend
Most wellness trends arrive with a product to sell. Nonnamaxxing arrives with a philosophy,
and the philosophy has evidence behind it.Italy leads the European Union in life expectancy, and the number of Italian centenarians is growing. A cluster of villages in Sardinia is one of the world’s five Blue Zones, regions on earth where people routinely live past 100.
As reported by The Guardian, the nonnamaxxing movement draws inspiration from the
elderly residents of these Blue Zones, specifically in Sardinia, where inhabitants frequently
live past the age of 100. The trend focuses on core longevity pillars: a homemade
Mediterranean diet, walking as a primary mode of transport, and deep community and
family connections.
This is not a new discovery dressed in trend packaging. These are patterns that researchers
have documented for decades. What nonnamaxxing does is give them a name that is
searchable, shareable, and, for better or worse, very online. The irony is not lost that a
movement about logging off has gone viral.
As psychotherapist Jonathan Alpert explained to Vice, nonnamaxxing resonates because people are genuinely exhausted by hustle culture. “A lot of younger people are burned out by the pressure to constantly optimise themselves, be productive, and turn their lives into content,” he said.
The appeal, he added, is the fantasy of a life that feels grounded, warm,
and unhurried.
Which is, when you strip the trend packaging away, simply a description of a good life.
The Nonnamaxxing Principles, Broken Down
Understanding nonnamaxxing means understanding what Italian grandmothers actually do,
not what they look like on Pinterest. There are five core behaviours that define this lifestyle,
and all of them are backed by research.
1. Walking as a Way of Life, Not a Workout
Italian cities and villages are designed for walking, making it an integral part of daily life
rather than a form of exercise. While cars are available, many destinations remain accessible
only on foot, especially given the narrow streets and the high cost of petrol. This walking-
centric lifestyle correlates with longevity, as numerous studies confirm that walking
contributes to healthier ageing.
A 2025 study published in the American Journal of Preventive Medicine found that just 15
minutes of brisk walking per day is associated with a lower risk of premature death. The
results show that significant effects can occur without needing high levels of effort.
The nonna does not count steps. She walks because there are things to do and people to
see.
2. Cooking From Scratch, Eating in Season
The Mediterranean diet, which focuses on olive oil, vegetables, fruits, whole grains and
legumes, all popular in Italy, has been linked to longevity. As researchers tend to emphasise,
the Mediterranean diet is not a fad diet. It is a way of life.
Seasonal eating is central to nonnamaxxing, not because it is fashionable but because it is
how the nonna has always operated. What is available at the market is what goes into the
pan. The concept of a strawberry in November, or a meal assembled rather than cooked, is
simply not part of the framework.
3. Community as a Daily Practice
Community is just as important as movement in the nonnamaxxing lifestyle. Italian
grandmothers stay embedded in their families and neighbourhoods well into old age,
providing childcare, staying socially active, refusing to quietly disappear. Research in the
American Journal of Preventive Medicine found that people who volunteered more than 100
hours a year had lower mortality risk, more optimism, and a stronger sense of purpose.
As one Italian grandmother told SELF, “The most important thing for living a long and happy
life? Don’t isolate yourself. Always stay in touch with people, travel, plan outings, and get
out of the house.”
4. Dolce Far Niente: The Art of Doing Nothing
The nonnamaxxing trend serves as a modern antidote to digital exhaustion, emphasising the
Italian concept of dolce far niente, which translates as the sweetness of doing nothing, and
encourages presence over screen time.
This is not laziness. It is architecture. The afternoon pause is built into the structure of the
day deliberately. Energy is treated as something to be replenished, not merely managed
through caffeine and calendar blocking.
5. Ageing Without Apology
One striking feature of Italian nonne is their nonchalant attitude toward ageing. It is common
to see women of all ages, including grandmothers, wearing bikinis at pools and beaches.
This cultural perspective underscores a belief that ageing is a natural process, not
something to be concealed or corrected.
In an industry that profits from your dissatisfaction with your own face, this is genuinely
radical.
How to Actually Practise Nonnamaxxing: A Practical Guide
This is where nonnamaxxing earns its place beyond aesthetics. Here is how to bring this
lifestyle into your actual daily life, without moving to Sardinia.
Start With Your Morning
Replace your scrolling window with a slow breakfast. Brew coffee properly. Eat something
made with at least two ingredients that you combined yourself. Keep your phone in another
room for the first thirty minutes. This is not productivity theatre. It is the nonnamaxxing
version of not treating your first waking hour as content to be processed.
Walk With Purpose
Movement in the nonnamaxxing lifestyle is not something you schedule. It is something you
live. Italian grandmothers walk to the market, to visit friends, through their neighbourhoods,
and after meals. That gentle post-meal walk plays a meaningful role in blood sugar
regulation, digestion, and overall metabolic health.
Build walking into errands. Choose the longer route. Leave your headphones at home at
least once a week and let the walk be the thing, not a backdrop for a podcast.
Cook One Meal Properly Each Day
It does not need to be elaborate. It needs to be real. One pan of vegetables in olive oil. A pot
of something that simmers. The act of cooking from scratch, even simply, reconnects you to
the rhythm of the nonnamaxxing lifestyle in a way that a green smoothie bottle does not.
Invest in One Relationship Every Day
Send a voice note. Have lunch with someone in person. Call the person you keep meaning to
call. Nonnamaxxing is not a solo practice. The nonna is embedded in her community by
design. Connection is not a weekend activity in this framework. It is a daily one.
Practise Sitting Still
In principle, nonnamaxxing is an outlook on life. In practice, it means sitting on a hard chair
on your front step, as The Guardian described it.
There is wisdom in this plainness. Dolce far niente does not require a spa or a sabbatical. It
requires the willingness to stop, briefly, and not fill the pause.
Eat With Someone
The solitary meal eaten in front of a screen is the dominant mode of eating among urbanprofessionals under forty. In the nonnamaxxing framework, this is not eating. It is refuelling.
The table, the conversation, the second glass of wine poured for someone else, these are
the practice.
The Nonnamaxxing Aesthetic: What It Looks Like
Part of why nonnamaxxing spread the way it did is visual. The images are genuinely
beautiful: terracotta tiles, fresh tomatoes in ceramic bowls, linen aprons, afternoon light
through shuttered windows.
But nonnamaxxing is only worth practising if the aesthetic follows the substance, not the
other way around. You can style your kitchen to look like a Sicilian farmhouse and still eat
alone at your phone every night. The aesthetic is not the point. The rhythm is.
The visual language of nonnamaxxing should be understood as an invitation rather than an
instruction. Let it draw you toward the slower morning, the real meal, the actual walk. Let the
apron get flour on it.
Nonnamaxxing and the Slow Living Movement
Nonnamaxxing does not exist in isolation. It sits within a broader cultural shift that also
includes the rise of slow fashion, soft living, and what researchers call deceleration culture:
the conscious rejection of hustle as an identity.
According to Ofcom’s 2025 Online Nation report, adults aged 18 to 24 in the UK spent an average of 6 hours and 20 minutes online each day.
Placed next to those numbers, the appeal of nonnamaxxing becomes easier to understand. The draw is not just cosiness. It is a relief. It offers a way to make parts of the day feel less mediated, less performative, and less crowded by inputs competing for attention.
Nonnamaxxing is the extreme opposite of optimisation culture, and that is precisely why it
lands. It does not ask you to track, measure, or improve. It asks you to show up, cook
something, and sit down with the people you love.
The Italian grandmother has been doing this for centuries. She is not tired. She is thriving.
The Honest Caveat
There is a version of nonnamaxxing that is costume rather than practice. The aestheticwithout the substance. The linen apron hanging on the kitchen hook, the sourdough starter
abandoned on day three, the ceramic bowl of heirloom tomatoes photographed and
immediately filtered.
This version is understandable. Aesthetics are how we try on identities before we commit to
them. But nonnamaxxing only works if you let it past the surface.
The nonna does not know she is a wellness trend. That is, precisely, how she manages to be
one
